Yes We Can, and WILL!!!

"As a woman, you can have it all, just not all at one time," and I truly believe this! Life comes at you in stages, and you have to reassess and adjust for each one.

-Candace Bond McKeever

 Partner

 Impact Strategies, LLC

Siri Kuponda By Reality Dreamer

I think I'm in love with my crush.....
Just the sound of his name makes me weak to my knees
but I'm not soft
I just enjoy lay'n in his arms and the feel of his touch as he whispers in my ear "I LOVE YOU"
I just may love my crush......
but it's not that much of a rush since I've known him so long & every butterfly in my stomach agrees that we're meant to be more than Adam & Eve.
So it's normal to me to know "I LOVE MY CRUSH!"
I'M NOT INSANE...IT'S TRUE
It's the look in his eyes when he uses that thing between his thighs that makes me moan with pride as we develop that love inside which will last a lifetime in our eyes

It's how our souls they connect, since the day we first met
and my heart took a step towards our love
Maybe it's a lil much to want you so much...
But see.....
It's my heart that's putting me up to this.
N my mind is no help when it's lost in emotion in a world that revolves around you.
"I LOVE MY CRUSH!!!!!!!!!!!"
See your more than my crush your my heart
My motivation to be a better Woman  to help make our dream better than a fairytale
I  truly love my crush, my everything, my heart.......
Because your crazy enough to love me to

Loved by my Angel

For the first time I can actually say that I'm in love. Never in a million years did I think that someone would make loving me seem so easy.

saved love

Do you wanna be expecting?

I want a lfe with you and the child we made, kuz we made that. my plans is ur plans and the other way around. goodnight baby. see u tomorro

u need to be right here with me.

I love and care about u sincerly. You are what a woman is suppose to be n that makes me want to keep you in my arms all the time.

I felt this way about u in middle school.

Steph i really love do love u and i hope that this is real.

As a Man...Ur Man...Ill do anything to make sure we are okay. I promise!!!

Im happy I found you once again.

Some things are better left unsaid...but telling u and showing u I LOVE YOU will not be one of them.

I can't get sick of u baby...I love u too much.

I love the way u think. So ahead of ur time....

Well u have two boyz and a man. if you love me then love me all the way bcuz i will.

As strong as our relationship is now id do any and everything4 u, because of how u deal with me. I know u would never put me in harms way or harm onto others,especially those important to me. How u made me fel better after my feelingswere hurt shows howmuch u are there 4 me. Im at the point of why wait 2 speak vows to be there 4u until death when u mean so much 2 me now.

Baby im really all the way in it with you. 100percent.

I fucking love u.......CAKE

I  know u do lol. Thats y i'll never step out of place....NEVERRRR

The hardest part is when they stop coming.....

Touched by an Angel

We, unaccustomed to courage

exiles from delight

live coiled in shells of loneliness

until love leaves its high holy temple

and comes into our sight

to liberate us into life.

Love arrives

and in its train come ecstasies

old memories of pleasure

ancient histories of pain.

Yet if we are bold,

love strikes away the chains of fear

from our souls.

We are weaned from our timidity

In the flush of love's light

we dare be brave

And suddenly we see

that love costs all we are

and will ever be.

Yet it is only love

which sets us free.

                                              -Maya Angelou

Happy Birthday to me!!!!

Today is another year that I may count my blessings Not just another morning, but another year to say that I'm alive and loving it. Watching Black Girls Rock, getting motivated and making this blessing into something more. I'm blessed to have reached 23, and I'm going to show how proud of it I am. I have had my share of ups and downs, but that doesn't mean I'm going to let anything stop me from showing my full potential. I love myself way to much not to do what I was put on this earth for. I make mistakes like everyone else but I'm going to promise myself that i'll do what I'm made for. As I enjoy my birthday.

down on a day

A life of it's own unknown to man
a curse left inside me lost beneath my soul
more than an emptiness that lurks beside me
it's my comfort zone
constantly trying to figure out why when and what happened
focused on what's wrong with no effort to do what's right
I'm alone in my own world and no sense of can be made of it

Vent Session 102

Lost for words sometimes. Have you ever felt as though you finally knew exactly what you wanted and the steps that you needed to get there? Then the few people that you expected to support you were the ones who really wanted to break you. I'm a very nice person, would do any and everything for someone if I could. Until now. Sometimes you have to get yourself where you want to be before you try and do for others. Don't get me wrong, I would more then love to help those who would truly appreciate and need it, but you can't always do that. I have been through my share of experiences, and one of the things I keep forgetting is to focus on making yourself a better person then I was yesterday. I would keep giving everyone the benefit of the doubt and every single time it's been a slap in the face.Even the people that I felt had my back. Now I have a couple who feel as though im bitter, and a ticking time bomb ready to explode, but im a lot more calm then I was when I was younger. I express myself a lot more, and I have no problem telling someone where they can go...but in a respectful way, still trying to be a role model to those watching. I've learned that some, if not most people are going to think of you what they want, even if you let them know different. You just have to be strong enough to know who you are and what you plan on making of yourself. I'm one of the many people who learned that you just can't please everyone, not everyone is going to like you, and there is always going to be someone who has to be negative. You just have to be strong enough to handle it. I've learned that once you can handle little things like that...life is so much easier and stress free, trust. I know it's easier said then done, but when someone says or does something that you know would not be right, create space. Some people learn how valuable you are when you're gone. If they still don't come around just stay distant, clearly you didn't matter enough for them to get their act together.I know i'm kind of all over the place, but this is how I like to vent. I find ways to clear my head and put myself at ease. #SelfAngerManagementControl. Like I was saying, after everything I've been through, and all the people that I reached my neck out, I realized more then half of them would'nt help me if they hit the lotto, won a trip around the world and had mega money to spare. Last year(2009) was the ending note to all foolishness for me. I'm a very quiet person, so I pay close attention, I remember everything that's been said and done to me. I'll always forgive, but I will never forget what was done. I see no reason in holding grudges because I do believe people can change for the best just as quick as they can change for the worst, but in saying that I'm also evolving into a stronger person. I don't deserve to be treated without respect so I wont. I'm so much more comfortable in my skin and I finally love myself. I don't need anyones praise because I know what I'm doing for myself, but I do appreciate all forms of appreciation. I'm finally happy, and I love it! I want the same feeling to run through everyones veins =)