Thursday, April 10, 2014

Defining Love

Love: To feel tender affection for somebody. Such as a close friend or relative, or something such as a place, an ideal or an animal.      
       
  How do you define something that can be so versatile, with one plain definition? To make it seem so easy, but so hard to truly understand. Not saying that it can't be true, but is it for you to decide, or a Google definition? So many people now a days define love by what they see in romantic movies, love songs or someone close to them. Love can be defined in a variety of meanings. With different people, religions, and languages. No matter how you put the words together, shouldn't they reflect the same feeling?

 " I do not trust people who don't love themselves, and yet tell me; I love you." There's an African saying which is: be careful when a naked person offers you a shirt." -Maya Angelou

 So when telling someone you love them, shouldn't you feel the same way about yourself? As I've stated before. A person can make you feel complete, special, powerful, intelligent, and like there's no one that can bring what you do to the table. So when you feel that way about yourself, it should be that much greater. "Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at it's destination, full of hope." It's the feeling of commitment to something special. Something that's close enough to your heart  that it triggers a sense of urgency to your mind. The VERY same commitment that LeBron had to earn a Championship ring, Impersonal love is what helps define your character. Personal goals, experiences or interest that make you unique, and relatable at the same time. Anyone can love. A person with a personality disorder and a bit of narcissism can endure love. Just as a four year old telling their parents how much they love them. Regardless of how limited it is. It's there.

 Others wonder. "Is lust and; love the same thing? " Helen Fisher, an expert in the topic of love, divides the experience into three stages. Lust, attraction, and attachment. Lust, the sexual chemistry; attachment, the commitment factor(wifey status) The stage that most leap towards a little to soon. Meaning skipping over attraction, and just going from lust to love; often ending in resentment. Although lust does contribute to a formula for love. It's not enough to base a relationship off of. Attraction is the foundation that molds into what "Can be" a wonderful relationship, friendship or experience. Or just a waste of pheromones.

  Love builds up the broken wall and straightens the crooked path. Love keeps the stars in the firmament and imposes rhythm on te ocean tides, each of us is created for it. -May Angelou 

Erich Fromm, author of "The art of loving," clarifies that love is not a feeling, but also an action. That the feeling of love is superficial, in compared to someone's commitment to love overtime. With this being said. Is it possible to fall in love at first sight. If love is more then a feeling, then how does a brother and sister love each other unconditionally well before knowing one another? Does the definition change depending on circumstances? Or is it just another rule, and regulation forced onto something that should be free spirited?

 Love is unique when it comes to more than one individual, religion and language, but the intentions are all the same. From times to Ancient Greek, the word agape( I love) Eros(In love) to the concept Ai, developed by Chinese philosopher Mozi, in the 4th century BC. In reactions to Confucianism benevolent love. More so directed towards unconditional love. The words may differentiate, but the meaning is universal. Sa'di wrote.......

 The character of Adam are limbs of one body. Having been created of one essence. When the calamity of ties afflicts one limb. The other limbs cannot remain at rest. If you have no sympathy for the troubles of others. You are not worthy to be called by the name of "man".

This being of no difference then the Christianity understanding, that love comes from God. Christianity also sharing Greek words for love agape; in the New Testament as charitable, selfless, and altruistic. Philae, also in the New Testament, meaning human response, to something that is "brotherly love". Also Eros, the sexual love, or desire another is succeeded. Yet we still take time to knock others value, and belittle others morals, because they don't fit our standards. Some call them free lovers. Free love, being the freedom from state regulations. Started in the early 19th century. Some took part in believing marriage was important to the middle class. Free love, also negatively called sex radicals, were grouped as adultery. Youth having sex, any form of birth control, abortion and homosexuality.
 "Some think that love is all flower and good times, but I think that love is more than just that. Love is the bad, as well as the better. Not lived alone, but a journey together. Something that only the closest can share, with communication and respect."-Nikki Giovanni

How do you regulate, or judge love, and still feel you understand the meaning. What makes your love more important to those of the same sex, or someone who is young hearted? For love to be(or at least seem to appear) unconditional, you'd think everyone would have a better understanding of an "open heart." Years may have changed, but mindsets still seem to remain the same. Philosophical views try and describe the ethics, and attempts to explain the nature of love. The value tied to the affect it may have on the body. When reading the views stated. They still referred to the ancient Greek words Agape, Philae, and Eros. After all this research. My only understanding of love would be that its your choice. To feel tender affection for someone(Eros)a close friend. (Philae) or relative. Or something such as a place, an ideal or an animal(Agape). The definition provided is simple at sight, but just like life, it's up to you to create your own destiny. "We love because it's the only true adventure." There is always something to do." There are hungry people to feed, naked to clothe, sick people to comfort, and make well; and while I don't expect you to save the world. I do think it's not asking to much for you to love those with whom you sleep. Share the happiness of those whom you call friend. Engage in those among you who are visionary, and remove from your life those who offer you depression, despair and disrespect." -Nikki Giovanni

Teyana Taylor Reloaded

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Wednesday, April 9, 2014

Detroit Vs Everybody

 What ever your taste in cars, the Detroit Auto Show collection will more then satisfy your appetite. General Motors, Ford, and Chrysler stepped up to the plate this year. Showing that they're able to compete with style, performance, and price. This auto show will no longer have you second guessing what an American car has to offer.

 
 
 
 
 
 
Photo credit: Stephanie Davis
Location: Detroit Auto Show  
 

G.O.A.T.


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Brainy Quotes

Quote : Michael Jordan
 

Northern Auto Show 2013



Photo Credit: Stephanie Davis

Location : Detroit Auto Show 2012

 

Friday, July 19, 2013

Love LA

Family Love

By Markel

 
Photo Credit: Markel Sincere 

Please Excuse my Arrogance

I feel a slight ambition when I mellow inside my existence

 Confronted by my harmony when it speaks, it's a bit submissive

 Appalled by all concerns when they fly around my persistence

 A bit of arrogance peaks as I walk without recognition

Avoiding all my obstacles, struggles, navigating towards my hustle

 A mind blowing affect sonic booms at the sight of all aggression

 I'd advance without acceptance

 Get my point across not needing words

 A type of personality not usually seen

 A voice not really heard

 In my generation it's a concern

 I speak with a train of thought

Fear lost in all expression

A confidence painted like art

 Humbled by my growth

 Acknowledge for my past

 Followed for my progression

  Torn down so it wouldn't last

My future is a vision for what most will only dream

 Reality dreamer is only a word. My life is what it means.

Love Story

I gave him a dollar towards his dream and he's been my reality ever since

 The key to my soul where my heart and mind connects.

My thoughts skip a beat when he takes that first step

Lost in infatuation while my mind is at a rest

Not good for my emotions But somehow our bodies just connect

I'm his little secret.... But in my heart he is set.

Torn between my common sense & my heart.

While one says give it time.... But my reality SCREAMS dart!

I'm stuck at a standstill, because I can't stand to be apart.

A one sided love story. And it's a solo act of art.

Unbreakable I Am

Before I let you break me I'll create a better me

That sophisticated ignorance

This shit ain't what it seems

Developer of new dreams

Realist to what's obscene

Type of vibe that sometimes can be overseen

  I create a path using my past Never hindered to the baggage

 The mentality of a Queen

Vengeance a Lil savage

I speak with a bit of arrogance

Walk with elegant grace

Overwhelmed by my beauty

Steal your heart w/o a trace

Don't get confused by my race Articulate I am

 

Monday, March 4, 2013

I AM.....

 

 

I, Stephanie Marquisha Davis, am a sarcastic bundle of expression. I forever will be this way. I enjoy my sarcastic tone, and love feeling free, and comfortable expressing myself. I am a little moody, weird, quiet and sometimes distant. At the same time, I am very loving , persistent, goal- orientated, creative, goofy funny, and willing to help those in need. I AM ME! Never to be confused with someone else. Although comparisons are always flattering. (To the other person and myself) I enjoy writing, listening to music, and dancing to everything. As long as the doors closed and locked. Reading strikes my creativity, and enhances my imagination. To the point that I become the character. I've always loved making people smile, and hate seeing others hurt, struggling or feeling left out. I make jokes, and mess with people to break the ice. I'd never make a harmful joke. I laugh to myself when I remember something funny. Usually at the most awkward times. My little Stephanie moments. When I'm bored I eat, or excited. I'll eat when I'm hungry, or even if I just smell food. In case you have not caught on.......I love to eat . My personality is a contradiction. I can be very arrogant, but humble. Extremely sarcastic, but very understanding. One of the nicest people you will run into, but blunt to the point that you're speechless. I am....an intelligent, sometimes soft spoken, productive young lady on a mission. I AM ME!

Faith in America

“We are developing a Faith in America’s future.” Exactly what President Barack Obama expressed during his inaugural address for his second Presidential Inauguration. Usually being held on January 20th, this time we celebrated one special event on an even more special holiday. This being President Obama's last imagination Ceremony, what better way to spend it then on Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day. Now because of the amendment stating that the Presidential Oath must be held on the 20th of January, the President had a private ceremony on that Sunday, which Monday’s ceremony more for the public viewing. At that it was. With stellar performances by BeyoncĂ©, Kelly Clarkson, and musical contributions of the United States Marine Band, it was surely an event full of inspiration, emotion, and faith. Obamas target on gun control, climate change, immigration reform reminds us all of why he is perfect for this position. Though the moment when he stops, takes a moment to admire the West Front of the Capital: telling those near him; "I want to take a look one more time, I'm not going to see this again". That makes him the relatable human being that has helped keep him in office.      


President Obama Speaks out (Video)

Saturday, February 16, 2013

Sammie Documentry



The only way to sleep on Sammie, is to have his tranquil voice playing from his love defining mix tape Insomnia. This Indie recording artist shows that with God and family, anything is possible. being the humble nine year vet that he is, Sammie has no problem sharing his insight. From relationships, values, healthy lifestyles, and random silliness on Instagram.  Sammie gives you the opportunity to learn him as an artist. His 45 minute YouTube documentary displays his talents, tour life and responsibility as a son and devoted brother, and  A few guest appearances from his industry friends, Dough Boy, Atlanta Hawks star Buddy " Lou Walls", and not forgetting Producer/mentor Troy Taylor: You may recognize Troy from working with recording artist Trey Songz.  Sammie shows that even with being a vet in the game, there's ALWAYS an opportunity that you can learn something new. "KEEP JUMPING" when an obstacle comes your way. A dream is a desire, accomplished by those who seek success.

Video Courtesy of:  Prince Sammie YouTube page

Bad Boy- Teyana Taylor



 Teyana Taylor shows her vocals are just 1/3 of what she has to offer.

05 Teyana Taylor - DUI Feat. Fabolous & Jadakiss [The Misunderstanding O...



There's no misunderstanding when it comes to Teyana Taylor. Currently signed to rap phenom, Kanye West G.O.O.D music. Teyana gives you every bit of a reason to google her. After being signed to Star Trak entertainment, by Pharrell Williams & Chad Hugo for six years. States that she appreciates the learning experience and growth, when asked about the situation. Also saying that "google me" wasn't her style. which is shown in her single D.U.I, featuring Fabolous & Jadakiss. from her mix tape "The Misunderstanding of Teyana Taylor. Showing a more vintage, trapped in the 90s flare. She describes what she wants her music to reflect. To bring the true R&B back. Not stopping her from gracing covers of Bleu magazine or getting bit by the acting bug. Playing along side greats like Mekhi Phiffer, in a Ronnie Warner directed film, "Love Section". looking forward to seeing what this Lady of R&B has to offer.

Thursday, February 14, 2013

First comes.. Love?

It's almost becoming a pattern with me. My blog entry’s tweets and strides in life motivate me. It's no different from a rapper going on about what they want, have, and where they been to get to where they are. Or plan to be in the future. Right now my thoughts are love. So what would be better than Valentine’s Day to post a blog on defining love? Not that I don't have other goals. It's just what happens to me when I get in my routine. Find a guy or they find me, start a conversation which leads to a happy loving relationship. Then we split up. I take a year break, and run into another guy. So on and so on. ALWAYS with the intent on not falling......and then I come to that never ending fall off the most dangerous cliff I could find. I always survive, but the pain and bruises after getting caught up always leave a small scar. Getting trapped on that eerie emotional roller coaster and facing battles that have you debating your personal choices in life. Convincing yourself with.. "I should stay because, "or "He really does care about me!" All while thinking others don't stand a chance leading towards the terrible uncomfortable feeling of being kept a secret to the one you love unconditionally. Is this love? So many people these days define love by what they see in a romantic movie, a love song or with someone close. Not saying that it can't be true, but is it for you?  Can you base your love off of a fairytale or others perceptions?  

Saturday, February 9, 2013

Django Unchained - Official Trailer (HD)



What better way to end the year. Django ,and yes the D is silent, was one of the most inclined movies to hit the big screen. Ranging from comedy, action, romance and of course passion. All of the actors and staff that are apart of this team showed their ass. Literally! Jamie Foxx never ceases to amaze me.Showing exactly what it is to be a triple threat. Singing, Acting comedy, what is there that this man of inspiration cant do? While there are many funny moments in the movie. Its hard to detour away from the acts of slavery showed in the film. Watching a human with the same ,what you might call face, as you be beaten is never an easy sight. The strength and heart that Jamie Foxx, Samuel L. Jackson and Kerry Washington(along with the other actors) showed in this film is inspirational. The fact that they wound go that extra mile to understand the  pain of being a slave, just to give us, the audience a momentum movie,truly shows what type of actors they are. I'm sure it was not easy for Leonardo DiCaprio or Christophe Waltz tolet the N word roll of their tongues either. All in all its definitely not a surprise that the film has won awards such as, Golden Globe award, Best supporting Actor-Film, National Board of Review for Best Supporting Actor, Critics Choice Award for best Original Screenplay. Quentin Tarantino, Director and Screenplay writer must be proud. Looking forward to seeing more work from him, and the great contributors who made this film what it was. Inspiring.


Well the D may be silent, but the theater audience was everything but so.